But She's Not Answering the Question!

We wake up, check our smart phones, turn on the TV and maybe still collect the paper on the stoop. Instantly we’re bombarded by corporate spokespeople and politicians who obviously don’t give direct answers to certain questions from journalists.  Is that OK?  Sometimes.

For those of you who really listen, a spokesperson not answering the question is frustrating. But in a society where multitasking and limited attention spans are the norm, some spokespeople know they can get away with it because many of us don’t listen that closely.

Still, it doesn’t have to be an either/or situation – and the answer lies in what we call the “Touch and Go” technique. Rather than completely avoiding a question, the more credible spokesperson does better to briefly “touch” upon the question and then quickly “go” to an established message, without repeating the reporter’s words. The brief acknowledgement of the question is a more credible approach than simply ignoring the reporter.

Learn to Love Public Speaking - Yeah, Really

Woman in professional outfit with bun speaking to diverse crowd, blurred.

Most people don’t like public speaking. In fact, most people would rather get into a fistfight with Roy Kent from “Ted Lasso” than give a speech or a presentation. But good public speakers are good because they love what they're doing. And you can improve your public speaking by learning to love it as they do.

Get Fired up

Good speakers are fired up about their topic. They're passionate and inspired, and this translates to inspiration for the audience. When you're talking about a topic you're interested in, you'll find yourself more confident and even enjoying giving your speech.

But what if you're not so excited about your topic? You can still take any topic and liven it up. Identify a problem and frame your topic as the solution to the problem. Tell a story or several stories throughout your presentation. Another way to make it interesting is to involve the audience directly. Make your presentation participatory.

Break Down the Barrier

Giving a presentation usually isn't fun when you feel all alone up on stage or in front of the Zoom camera. It can feel as though there's a huge wall between you and the audience. So when you create good rapport with the audience, you can relax and enjoy yourself. It becomes like a conversation wtih a group of your friends or co-workers.

One way to break down the barrier is to mingle with audience members prior to taking the stage. Greet them as they arrive and chat with them. You can also open your presentation with an appropriate joke or a story to establish commonality. Another idea is to encourage some audience participation at the beginning of the presentation.

Don't Take Yourself Too Seriously

Approach presenting with a smile on your face. Don't take yourself too seriously. If you're having fun, the audience will have fun too. People often get serious or self-conscious because we fear rejection, but remember that the audience is here to see you speak and hear what you have to say. They want you to do well, because that will result in a better experience for them.

Of course, it's not only love and enthusiasm that makes a presentation good. Public speaking looks natural when a good speaker does it, but a great deal of skill development, preparation, and practice goes into giving a good presentation. You see the speaker smiling, talking, and bringing the audience along with them through their presentation. What you don't see is all the hard work and preparation beforehand.

The great news here is that all of these actions are simple and you can take them, too. Follow these steps and you will feel more comfortable and confident. With practice, you may come to love public speaking as much as the speakers you admire now. For more practical steps you can take, enroll in oratorio.teachable.com and get started today.

How to Be a Great Podcast Guest

How to Be a Great Podcast Guest

Appearing on podcasts as a guest is a fantastic way to expand your audience and position yourself as a subject-matter expert. You don’t even need to start your own show. You need a good topic that’s helpful for the show’s audience and reach out to the podcaster with your pitch. It’s a win-win situation.

3 Ways to Learn to Love Public Speaking

Public speaking is not a popular activity for most people. In fact, many feel a crippling fear of public speaking. For others, it's a chore that just has to be done. But good public speakers, like those you see on TED Talks, are good because they love what they're doing. Like a musician or other performers, they love to get up on stage and speak. You can improve your public speaking by learning to love it as they do.

Get Fired up

Good speakers are fired up about their topic. They're passionate and inspired, and this translates to inspiration for the audience. When you're talking about a topic you're interested in, you'll find yourself more confident and even enjoying giving the speech.

What if you're not so excited about a topic you have to speak on? You can take any topic and liven it up. Identify a problem and frame your topic as the solution to the problem. Tell a story or several stories throughout your presentation. Another way to make it interesting is to make the audience do the work. Make it participatory.

Break Down the Barrier

Giving a presentation usually isn't fun when you feel all alone up on stage and there's a huge “wall” between you and the audience. When you have good rapport with the audience, you can relax and enjoy yourself. It's like you're talking to a group of your friends.

One way to break down the barrier is to mingle with audience members. Greet them when they arrive and chat with them. You can also open your presentation with a joke (as long as it’s funny, appropriate, and relevant) or a story to establish commonality. Another idea is to encourage some audience participation at the beginning of the presentation.

Don't Take Yourself So Seriously

Approach presenting with a smile on your face and a laugh always about to escape from your throat. Don't take yourself too seriously. If you're having fun, the audience will have fun too. People often get serious or self-conscious because we fear rejection, but remember that the audience is here to see you speak and hear what you have to say.

Of course, it's not only love and enthusiasm that makes a presentation good. Public speaking looks natural when a good speaker does it, but a great deal of skill development, preparation, and practice goes into giving a good presentation. You see the speaker smiling, talking, and bringing the audience along with them through their presentation. What you don't see is all the hard work.